…is eerie. This is the face of my evil twin Skippy, the result of a life built upon low-self esteem and the need for acceptance. I couldn’t have put Skippy in better words than what spewed out of my Facebook “personality test” today, but here it is…

Your Result: The Vain, Self-Centered Leader

Others see you as someone they should “handle with care.” You’re seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don’t always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.

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This is, truthfully, the facet of my personality that most people who don’t know me perceive. I’ve never seen it put so well, or so succinctly before. It’s not complimentary, but for many people, I believe that this is how I appear.

When a person does become deeply involved with me, or even spends enough time to see beyond the surface, it becomes obvious, I hope, that much of this just isn’t the case. I’m very much hoping that the people who know me and read this will comment…and tell me their honest thoughts. Don’t handle me with care!!:)